Tamara Werner

(they/them)

Owner, Rebel Heart Therapy / Clinical Supervisor / Licensed Professional Counselor

Specializing in

SEX THERAPY / KINK / TRAUMA / LGBTQIA+ ISSUES / COMING OUT / GENDER EXPLORATION / NEGOTIATION & CONSENT

About Me.

Hi there, I'm Tam. I am a queer, kinky, agender clinician with a mission to empower authenticity, foster compassion, and promote healing within the LGBTQIA+, kink, and poly communities.

Through alternative therapeutic techniques, including tarot and negotiation, I aim to create an affirming space where my clients can explore their true selves, working on the issues that brought them to counseling, free from judgment. Together, we embark on journeys of self-discovery, celebrating uniqueness, and embracing the power of being unapologetically queer, kinky, and authentic.

In my practice, I dive deep into the world of queer and kinky experiences, emphasizing the importance of negotiation, consent, and empowerment. As an AASECT Sex Therapist, Certified LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Therapist, and Certified Trauma Therapist, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise to our sessions.

In the counseling room at Rebel Heart Therapy, I believe in the power of alternative therapeutic techniques that go beyond conventional approaches. Incorporating tools like tarot and negotiation allows for a more holistic and personalized experience. Tarot, for instance, can serve as a powerful tool for self-reflection and insight, enabling clients to explore their feelings and thoughts from a unique perspective. Additionally, the art of negotiation plays a pivotal role in creating a safe and empowering environment. It fosters discussions about trust, power dynamics, and consent, which are especially crucial in the LGBTQIA+, kink, and poly communities. By embracing these alternative methods, I aim to provide a space where individuals can harness their agency, explore their authentic selves, and embark on journeys of self-discovery and empowerment.

Get ready to start your journey toward a more authentic and fulfilling life.

Qualifications.

  • Licensed Professional Counselor - OR (#C4497), CO (#LPC.0017717), DC (#PRC200001722)

  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor - WA #LH60735577

  • National Board Certified Counselor #322270

  • LPC & LMFT Approved Supervisor, OBLPCT

  • AASECT Sex Therapist

  • Certified LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Counselor

  • Certified Trauma Counselor

  • Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Texas A&M University-Corpus Christi, 2013

  • Bachelor of Science in Computer Science, Texas A&M University-Corpus Christi, 2005

What do I do when I'm not at Rebel Heart?

My wife and I own this business together, so I am with them a lot, which is perfect, but not everything is about working with us. We love exploring and learning new things. We like to plan vacations to places we’ve never been and will hopefully one day visit together. We have four kids; some of them occasionally come out of their rooms to say hi. We spend most weekends and some weekday evenings watching three of our kids unapologetically take up space and be badasses on a derby track. Our fourth is training to be a chef, and watching his talent and passion grow makes my heart so happy.

My favorite food:

Burritos, hands down, no competition.

My favorite drink:

COFFEE!!!!

What I do for fun:

I love going out on long drives in my fast car with my youngest kid and singing as loud as possible.

Qualifications.

  • Licensed Professional Counselor - OR (#C4497), CO (#LPC.0017717), DC (#PRC200001722)

  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor - WA #LH60735577

  • National Board Certified Counselor #322270

  • LPC & LMFT Approved Supervisor, OBLPCT

  • AASECT Sex Therapist

  • Certified LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Counselor

  • Certified Trauma Counselor

  • Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Texas A&M University-Corpus Christi, 2013

  • Bachelor of Science in Computer Science, Texas A&M University-Corpus Christi, 2005

My favorite hobby:

Oh, so many to choose from. I would say my tops are tarot, shibari, and make-up.